How Not to Help a Sufferer

Mark Clifton, Mark Hallock, and Dan Hurst discuss an article from Gavin Ortlund on some ways that pastors unintentionally hurt those who are already suffering. Some Highlights:
  1. Appeal too quickly to God’s sovereignty
  2. Launch into a story of how God used your suffering
  3. Minimize the wrongdoing that caused the suffering
  4. Emphasize character formation while neglecting comfort and compassion
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